What is ADHD?
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental condition characterized by patterns of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity that can affect daily functioning, relationships, and self-esteem. ADHD is not a lack of discipline or willpower—it reflects differences in how the brain manages attention, motivation, and executive functioning.

Common characteristics of ADHD include:

  • Inattention: Difficulty sustaining focus, following through on tasks, or organizing activities. Individuals may often be distracted or forgetful.
  • Hyperactivity: A sense of restlessness, constant movement, or difficulty relaxing—even in calm settings.
  • Impulsivity: Acting quickly without considering consequences, interrupting others, or struggling with patience.
ADHD exists on a spectrum—some people experience primarily inattentive symptoms, while others have hyperactive or combined presentations. Many adults with ADHD develop unique strengths such as creativity, adaptability, and high energy when properly supported. ADHD is not a defect to be "fixed," but a different cognitive style that benefits from understanding and individualized strategies.

Diagnosing ADHD
Diagnosing ADHD in adults involves recognizing lifelong patterns of attention and regulation challenges. Many adults are diagnosed later in life after years of coping with undiagnosed symptoms, often mistaking them for anxiety, depression, or stress.

Key diagnostic features include:

  • Persistent Inattention: Chronic difficulty maintaining focus on tasks, remembering details, or completing projects.
  • Hyperactivity and Restlessness: Feeling "driven by a motor," difficulty staying still, or mental restlessness.
  • Impulsivity: Difficulty delaying gratification, blurting out thoughts, or making spontaneous decisions.
  • Early Onset: Symptoms typically appear before age 12, though many adults learn to mask or compensate until later in life.
The diagnostic process often includes:

  • Clinical Interviews: Exploring life history, patterns of attention, and executive function challenges.
  • Behavioral Questionnaires: Tools such as the Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale (ASRS) or Conners' Rating Scales may be used.
  • Collateral Information: Input from family members, partners, or close colleagues provides valuable perspective on lifelong patterns.
ADHD can be overlooked in adults—especially women and people with inattentive-type ADHD—due to differences in symptom presentation or masking behaviors. Diagnosis offers validation, clarity, and access to evidence-based treatments that support wellbeing.

Supporting ADHD
ADHD support focuses on improving executive functioning, emotional regulation, and self-understanding. Effective treatment integrates both practical tools and emotional support to help individuals harness their strengths and manage challenges.

  1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for ADHD: CBT helps individuals reframe unhelpful thoughts, develop organization systems, and improve time management and emotional control.
  2. Coaching and Skill Training: ADHD coaches provide practical strategies for goal-setting, prioritization, and accountability—empowering clients to build consistent habits.
  3. Medication: Stimulant and non-stimulant medications can help balance dopamine and norepinephrine levels, enhancing focus and self-regulation.
  4. Mindfulness Practices: Mindfulness improves attention regulation, reduces impulsivity, and enhances emotional awareness.
The goal of ADHD treatment is not to suppress traits but to cultivate environments and tools that align with how an ADHD brain functions best.

Additional Support Strategies
  • Structured Routines: Clear, predictable schedules help reduce overwhelm and improve follow-through.
  • External Supports: Use tools like planners, timers, reminders, and visual cues to stay organized.
  • Body Doubling: Working alongside another person—virtually or in person—can enhance focus and motivation.
  • Self-Compassion and Acceptance: Recognizing that ADHD affects behavior, not character, fosters resilience and self-worth.
  • Community and Peer Support: ADHD support groups or online communities provide validation, connection, and shared learning.
ADHD is not a barrier to success—it's a different rhythm of attention, creativity, and energy. With understanding, accommodations, and compassion, individuals with ADHD can thrive, turning challenges into sources of innovation, empathy, and drive.